Hybrid Butler / Valet / Personal Assistant needed in Upper Manhattan, NY
- Jul 9
- 2 min read
Schedule: Full‑Time, 5-6 days, Live‑Out/Live-in with extensive travel, requires complete flexibility in schedule
Compensation & Benefits
Salary: $150,000–$180,000 DOE
Bonus: Annual performance‑based bonus
Benefits: Tailored health package + long‑term incentives
Growth: Clear pathways for advancement under senior estate leadership
Role Overview
A private UHNW household in Uptown Manhattan is seeking a mid‑level Hybrid Butler/Personal Assistant to support both administrative lifestyle needs and hands‑on household hospitality. This role blends desk‑based PA work with elevated service, requiring strong organization, stamina, and the ability to travel regularly. Candidates must be trustworthy, discreet, and committed to long‑term private service.
Key Responsibilities
Personal Assistant Duties
Manage calendars, appointments, reservations, and daily scheduling
Handle personal errands, gifting, and vendor coordination
Support the Director of Operations and collaborate with household staff
Butler & Hospitality Service
Assist with daily meal service, table settings, beverage stations, and small events
Greet principals and guests; manage coats, luggage, and property readiness
Provide wardrobe support: steaming, pressing, organizing, and seasonal transitions
Travel Support
Prepare itineraries, travel documents, and packing lists
Expert packing/unpacking and destination setup
Maintain confidentiality and security while traveling
Qualifications
Prior experience as a Butler, Valet and Personal Assistant
Experience in luxury hospitality, lifestyle management, or UHNW private service
Strong administrative skills (Google Workspace, MS Office, scheduling apps)
Knowledge of formal service standards and wardrobe care
High discretion, loyalty, and long‑term career mindset
Physically fit with stamina for long hours and changing environments
Valid U.S. passport; comfortable with global travel
Excellent communication skills; multilingual a plus
Service‑first attitude with humility, tact, and professionalism
Requirements
Must currently reside in the New York City area
Strong, verifiable long-term references required before client submission
5+ years of experience working for UHNW or high-profile household
Authorized to work in the U.S.
Willing to undergo an extensive background check




